Well I tried to get into Fallout3 to do another set today... FOMM wouldn't open, but was apperently somehow running in the background (if anyone knows how to fix this PLEASE tell me) Tried for several more potential fixes:
tried a fresh game install
moved my data folder over
used Fallout3s default datamanager to load up mods
try to load saved file
apparently missing a mod(s)
load file anyway
arms looks a bit noodle-y
make a test pose
model trips the fuck out
still can't use FOMM to adjust the load order and potentially fix it
fuck it
go to sleep
feel bad for promising updates and failing to deliver. potentially permanently.
